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Offline thaonguyen

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hello friends, please help & share!
« on: June 17, 2017, 01:07:26 pm »
hey guys, I am sorry if this offends anyone, but if you could help and share, this would mean a lot...

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Re: hello friends, please help & share!
« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2017, 11:20:48 pm »
While giving is always good even there are places which will bring lessefruits:


Thaonguyen should be aware that nobody can pay back one loan and one has to carry ones deeds out by one self. In this way is not wise to seek for even more deeps.

Its like if you are confronted with the results of you deeds in live. If you after they have ripen go on, rather to bear them, and seek after others or try to give the loan to others, make new depts, even if in a current luck to win in this strategy, you accumulate depts and will have to bear the fruits.

Better to start to learn about gratitude, respect and generosity for youself and earn you outwardly and inwardly estimates rightly.

Not sure why you get this gift and not sure that you are able to value and follow it.

One selling ones parts people are easy attached to because they feel that they can put something useful into and gain by themselves benefit from it, are faster abused as they believe.

So don't play the poor one with big lovely eyes, but work your ways out.

(Aside thaonguyen really does not appear either poor in material things nor in selfuestimate, merely appearing as a professional seller of things people easy get attached, liking to put things and them selfes inside. How ever, in both cases, the kamma and result is the same. Situations have causes and people tend to repeat things. Change you ways and seek for pardon in certain cases fast!)
« Last Edit: June 18, 2017, 12:09:27 am by Samana Johann »
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Offline jimsouth

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Re: hello friends, please help & share!
« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2017, 09:28:05 am »
I have never had a problem baring my soul, if I knew I did nothing wrong, and needed help. I'm not saying borrowing money to pay for an education is wrong; but anyone who borrows, does so knowing the debt must be repaid. I am dealing with an issue I never asked for; but I was honorable enough to step up & take charge. My wife & I are raising two grandchildren. We now live on a fixed income, and must make the best of it. We are both dealing with health issues, no longer young, & no longer have the physical energy we once had. It's become living from month to month. Stepping up for two innocent children was the right thing to do; but it has taken a financial toll; and we live a Spartan existence. They are the children of my wife's son from her first marriage. Myself, I have no biological connection, and I have no legal connection that would compel me to raise/support these children; but there is no connection stronger than love. I would accept help if I could locate it; if for no other reason than to continue to keep the children safe.


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