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Offline kthulukthulu

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Regretting experience
« on: May 19, 2016, 08:30:51 am »
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Offline zafrogzen

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Re: Regretting gay experience
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2016, 12:02:50 pm »
This is the kind of question that teachers sometimes encounter, and which most of them refuse to get involved in. Or, if they do, they'll say something like -- "Just make friends with it."
My first formal meditation training was with Shunryu Suzuki in the 60's and later with Kobun, Robert Aitken and many other teachers (mainly zen). However, I've spent the most time practicing on my own, which is all I do now. I'm living in a rather isolated area so I miss connecting with other practitioners. Despite my interest in zen I've made an effort to remain secular. You can visit my website at http://www.frogzen.com

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Re: Regretting gay experience
« Reply #2 on: June 11, 2016, 05:59:07 pm »
Buddhist precepts cite sexual misconduct to be avoided:

1. Adultery
2. Sex with persons still under the care of their parents or adult guardians (children for example, or those who cannot care for themselves due to illness of body or mind and therefore cannot either morally, or legally consent)
3.  Rape or incest.
4.  Sexual congress with non-humans.
5.  Sexual congress with others if you have a communicable disease such a STDs, where the act of doing so would cause harm to others.
6.  Any sort of sexual congress or activity if you have committed to avoid doing so as the result of your precepts.

Otherwise, what you have reported in your post seems to matter only to yourself, as it is causing you mental discomfort / dissonance.

Shame is more in line with Abrahemic religions.  Purely out of curiosity, what was your previous religion before investigating Buddhism?
What Makes an Elder? :
A head of gray hairs doesn't mean one's an elder. Advanced in years, one's called an old fool.
But one in whom there is truth, restraint, rectitude, gentleness,self-control, he's called an elder, his impurities disgorged, enlightened.
-Dhammpada, 19, translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.

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Re: Regretting gay experience
« Reply #3 on: October 29, 2016, 12:34:50 pm »
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« Last Edit: August 29, 2019, 12:06:29 am by kthulukthulu »

 


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