Very wise choices Caz and you deserve a pat on the back for that..

and Spiny, you have a very good foundation of the Dharma.

To cut off all ties is the best consort
To live alone is a friend of duty
To treat foes as guests is to rid hatred
To treat hindrances as void is not so bad
They all are magic like plays of the mind
This is the only right way we could find
If one acts with no virtue or good Karma
He will never know the truth of Dharma
If a trusted Lama becomes tired
He will find it hard to be admired
All the best.