For those with less time (hee hee) try this:8 Verses For Training the Mind by Langri ThangpaWith a determinations to achieve the highest aimFor the benefit of all sentient beingsWhich surpasses even the wish-fulfilling gem,May I hold them dear at all times.Whenever I interact with someone,May I view myself as the lowest amongst all,And, from the very depths of my heart,Respectfully hold others as superior.In all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.When someone whom I have helped,Or in whom I have placed great hopes,Mistreats me in extremely hurtful ways,May I regard him still as my precious teacher.In brief, may I offer benefit and joyTo all my mothers, both directly and indirectly,May I quietly take upon myselfAll hurts and pains of my mothers.May all this remain undefiledBy the stains of the eight mundane concerns;And may I, recognizing all things as illusion,Devoid of clinging, be released from bondage.Follow with:Generating the Mind for EnlightenmentWith a wish to free all beingsI shall always go for refugeto the Buddha, Dharma and Sanghauntil I reach full enlightenment.Enthused by wisdom and compassion,today in the Buddha’s presenceI generate the Mind for Full Awakeningfor the benefit of all sentient beings.As long as space endures,as long as sentient being remain,until then, may I too remainand dispel the miseries of the world.
In all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.
Quote from: swampflower on August 06, 2010, 12:51:57 pmIn all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.If I took this to heart right now I'd loose a court case!
Quote from: santamonicacj on August 06, 2010, 04:32:40 pmQuote from: swampflower on August 06, 2010, 12:51:57 pmIn all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.If I took this to heart right now I'd loose a court case!LOL To be applied with wisdom !
Quote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 03:33:01 amQuote from: santamonicacj on August 06, 2010, 04:32:40 pmQuote from: swampflower on August 06, 2010, 12:51:57 pmIn all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.If I took this to heart right now I'd loose a court case!LOL To be applied with wisdom ! One good thing about Buddhadharma is that there are 'levels' of practice. With all due respect I just say to myself that level of practice is currently beyond me. At this time I am more prone to go for the 12 step approach of "Give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."This isn't going to be my last lifetime. Sainthood can wait until next time around. I just hope I make progress this time instead of regressing.
Quote from: santamonicacj on August 07, 2010, 08:41:28 amQuote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 03:33:01 amQuote from: santamonicacj on August 06, 2010, 04:32:40 pmQuote from: swampflower on August 06, 2010, 12:51:57 pmIn all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.If I took this to heart right now I'd loose a court case!LOL To be applied with wisdom ! One good thing about Buddhadharma is that there are 'levels' of practice. With all due respect I just say to myself that level of practice is currently beyond me. At this time I am more prone to go for the 12 step approach of "Give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."This isn't going to be my last lifetime. Sainthood can wait until next time around. I just hope I make progress this time instead of regressing.With effort all our goals can be accomplished
Quote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 09:33:40 amQuote from: santamonicacj on August 07, 2010, 08:41:28 amQuote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 03:33:01 amQuote from: santamonicacj on August 06, 2010, 04:32:40 pmQuote from: swampflower on August 06, 2010, 12:51:57 pmIn all my deeds may I probe into my mind,And as soon as mental and emotional afflictions arise-As they endanger myself and others-May I strongly confront them and avert them.When I see beings of unpleasant characterOppressed by strong negativity and suffering,May I hold them dear-for they are rare to find-As if I have discovered a jewel treasure!When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.If I took this to heart right now I'd loose a court case!LOL To be applied with wisdom ! One good thing about Buddhadharma is that there are 'levels' of practice. With all due respect I just say to myself that level of practice is currently beyond me. At this time I am more prone to go for the 12 step approach of "Give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."This isn't going to be my last lifetime. Sainthood can wait until next time around. I just hope I make progress this time instead of regressing.With effort all our goals can be accomplished With spiritual practice I believe it is important to not bite off more than you can chew, but also to do what you can. Each individual must find their own balance.
Of course, But we must not waste this life either Nothing give you a boot up the arse more then Death meditation ! hehe.
Quote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 10:06:46 amOf course, But we must not waste this life either Nothing give you a boot up the arse more then Death meditation ! hehe. The meditation on impermanence and death disengages your mind from the trivialities of the issues, dramas, situations, preconditions, suspicions, etc. of the samsaric perspective. But I'm no Milarepa. In fact I think that the story of Mila was one of the most damaging things I have encountered in my Dharma practice. I know Tibetans find the story inspiring. I find it horrifying.Sorry, but my cowardice wins this round. Better men than I will have to attain enlightenment in order for the Dharma to truly come to the West.
When others, out of jealousyTreat me wrongly with abuse, slander, and scorn,May I take upon myself the defeatAnd offer to others the victory.The point that is made here is that when others provoke you, perhaps for no reason or unjustly, instead of reacting in a negative way, as for no reason or unjustly, instead of reacting in a negative way, as a true practitioner of altruism you should be able to be tolerant towards them. You should remain unperturbed by such treatment. In the next verse we learn that not only should we be tolerant of such people, but in fact we should view them as our spiritual teachers. It reads:When someone whom I have helped,Or in whom I have placed great hopes,Mistreats me in extremely hurtful ways,May I regard him still as my precious teacher.In Shantideva’s Guide to the Bodhisattva’s Way of Life, there is an extensive discussion of how we can develop this kind of attitude, and how we can actually learn to see those who perpetrate harm on us as objects of spiritual learning. And also, in the third chapter of Chandrakirti’s Entry to the Middle Way, there are profoundly inspiring and effective teachings on the cultivation of patience (From Dalai Lama's web site)
Yes there are some very profound teachings amongst these texts, How wonderful it would be if everyone could apply them !
Quote from: Caz on August 07, 2010, 12:39:45 pmYes there are some very profound teachings amongst these texts, How wonderful it would be if everyone could apply them ! Easier said than done.And it is always easier to see how someone else should practice. I'm just acknowledging that I'm attached. It is the best I can do right now. Maybe later I'll do better.